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Jade Bar-Shalom
(Yehudit
Bat
Shira) was born in New York
City in 1960. When Jade was very young, her mother returned after a visit
to the New York Eye and Ear Clinic in tears. She had brought Jade there
to find out why her very sweet and social little girl wasn't talking
properly. She was told that for reasons not completely understood -
possibly as a result of running high fevers-Jade's auditory nerves were
damaged and she would never hear sounds the same way that others could
hear them. They would always be distant, distorted, and full of
interference. The family, which was struggling financially, took the news
hard. Everyone feared that Jade might never learn to speak, but she
overcame the early disadvantage, working on her speech with a
determination worthy of someone far older. She not only learned to speak,
she became so articulate, and was such a good listener, that people
unaware of her hearing loss often would not realize it until they were
told.
In 1984, when Jade made the decision to make Israel her home, she had to
go through the struggle all over again to cope with Hebrew-this time
without the help of a speech therapist-and again, despite the
difficulties, the setbacks, the frustration-she succeeded.
While working as an English teacher in Ma'alot, Akko and other Israeli
towns, Jade began to develop her own approach to English language learning
for children. Drawing on her own experiences, her programs combined the
use of action, drama, free reading of literature and group projects to
reach her students and make the language live and become a vital part of
their education and abilities. Urged by her husband, Ilan Bar-Shalom,
himself an educator, and her older sister, Rena Cohen, to complete her
higher education with an eye toward one day formalizing and expanding her
approach to English language education for young children, Jade-who by now
also had three wonderful children of her own, her son Aylam, and twin
daughters, Dovraht and Zohar-took up a new challenge and began studying at
Haifa University to complete her Master's Degree and earn a doctorate.
As the hopes of the Oslo peace process began drowning in the blood of the
terror campaign that began in 2000, Jade and Ilan worked hard locally in
Northern Israel to help hold the various communities-Jewish, Muslim, Arab
Christian, and Druze-together and communicating as violence and outside
agitators worked to destabilize the area. As the economic picture in
Israel grew progressively darker under the repeated blows of attacks
around the country, Jade also organized help for local families whenever
possible as they began slipping under with jobs growing scarce, small
factories closing, and government funds being diverted increasingly to
defense and away from-among other vital services-education.
In the fall of 2002, Jade phoned her sister Rena in the U.S. to share her
deep concern over an announcement that she had just heard at a meeting of
the English Teachers of Israel Association. There would be no further
funds available to purchase English language books for Israel's public
schools. Convinced that Israel's future would be damaged if her people do
not receive a thorough education in the language internationally used for
trade, diplomacy, and science, and aware of the tremendous psychological
damage that was being done to Israel's children on a daily basis by the
continued violence and threat of terror, Jade and Rena determined to begin
working together to bring the situation of the students and teachers of
Israel's public schools to the attention of concerned people in the
English speaking world who, they hoped, would come forward to help if they
were given a simple, practical way to do so. The Books for Israel Project
("B4i") was launched, with Rena serving as international coordinator to
help publicize the effort, and Jade and Ilan serving as the lead
organizers and mentors for the teachers and schools of Israel. Since its
inception in 2005, the many synagogues, churches, community centers, B'nai
Mitzvah, and concerned families and individuals who have come forward to
work with "B4i" have delivered over 41 tons of books to Israel's schools.
More importantly, some lasting friendships have been built across the
oceans. Each English language room made possible by "B4i" brings a
message home to the students in Israel's poor and low-income neighborhood
schools-their education is important, and there are people out there who
want them to succeed and are working to help.
Continuing in the tradition of Jade's earlier community work, the Books
for Israel Project was and is designed and intended to work with any and
all Israeli public schools-Jewish religious, Jewish secular, Druze,
Muslim, Arab Christian, Bahai-the effort welcomes any and all schools to
this "boostrap" effort, in which the teachers volunteer their time to
become goodwill ambassadors to the outside world, and the children-and
often their parents-volunteer their time to organize and house the books
so lovingly sent to help them learn.
In August 2005, Jade became seriously ill, and had to undergo emergency
surgery. She was diagnosed with Grade III brain cancer.
Jade's life bears witness to the fact that a person is not defined either
by their disabilities or by their illnesses if they will not consent to be
so defined, and that a strong spirit, courage, determination and faith can
overcome many obstacles. In August 2005, the name of the Books for Israel
Project was changed to the Jade Bar-Shalom Books for Israel Project as a
living testament to her vision, her tremendous concern for others and
especially for children, and her wonderful strong spirit, which we
believe, with the help of G-d, will overcome this new challenge that has
been set before her as schools all over Israel prepare to open their doors
again. This may be a difficult year, but with hope, and with faith, and a
great deal of hard work, may we all live to see a better day, and may we
all be together.
The Jade Bar-Shalom Books for Israel Project -
Rena Cohen - International Coordinator Ilan Bar-Shalom - Lead
Organizer, Israel
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Jade's loving family -
Her children - Aylam, Dovraht and Zohar Bar-Shalom
Her parents, Eliezer and
Shira
Behar, of Kibbutz Nachshon, Israel
Her younger sister, Danielle Behar Hartung
Her brothers-in-law, Ariel Cohen and Vince Hartung
Her niece, Tal-Or Cohen, and nephew, El-Ad Cohen
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